Leed, thank you for your support. My H and I are still doing T. Things are lonely because I do not have a strong connection with him anymore. If anything it is an acquaintance type connection to him. He comes here to sleep at night. That is better then him being here to b**** at me though. So I guess I need to count my blessings. I don't know if things are improving or not. T has made my hubby aware of his actions and my reactions but it has made him edgy to do "right". I am hoping that will pass w/ time. Leed thank you for all your insight. I look forward from hearing from you from time to time.

Sway, you are so right lonely but wanting to be alone. Sounds weird but it's all to possible.