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Originally Posted by subwaybeatsgrl
hi, new to this site, well, i am afraid and confused depressed and no clue what to do. I am in a 14year relationship living with him for 4 years and i came to realize he has no intentions on marring me. what do i do? where do i go if i leave him. there's more to it as well, i guess i knew for awhile now that i been living in an abusive relationship (verbally) .. I just haven't excepted it until this week. So if i do leave do i just leave everything and go , do i start getting rid of my stuff to make it easier. do i take my dogs with me or leave them , they are my life. oh, i have no job or money which make it a bit harder.
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Hello and welcome to the forums. Sounds like a rather complicated situation, and it also sounds like you've got some major "sorting out" to do in your life, for which you have a lot of questions. Perhaps you might start by calling your county's Health and Human Services Department /Mental Health Division, and see what counseling services are available for you. Another option would be to call the National Suicide Prevention Helpline, where your call will be routed to trained counselors in your area. They are not there only for people who are actually suicidal, but also for anyone who is struggling with stress, depression, loneliness, etc. Aside from listening, they are often able to guide you to further resources near you. Here is their link ~phone #
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Sending good thoughts
