Interesting piece. Thank you for sharing.

Frankly, it never occurred to me that "love" was part of the relationship dynamic. It has felt like a type of parental figure / friendship healing experience. Or a business type of relationship where we each do our parts to get to the healing part...

I also was under the impression that the opposite of love was indiffrrence and that hate was simply fear.

I have not had the experience of falling in love with any T, and if T did, me, I never knew about it.

But with good Ts, I always felt listened to, heard, validated and safe. For that, I felt enormously grateful.