(( Sure, I can write up plenty on someone's dream about destruction, but then I get to somethign like this and I feel like a toddler wit ha copy of War and Peace x.x ))

Well, sometimes dreams are surface value alone. The end is certainly this way - relating the lingering knowledge that your coworker died, and that you held some affinity toward them, since you relate to them as a friend in the dream. The mix-up over the cars, actually makes sense now that I have that set in place. Could it be that perhaps you subconsciously don't know how to react to the stabbing? Perhaps your feelings are so mixed that you just can't pick a direction to move?