Hi Vader.

I agree with Rose and Big Mama. I know you're new, and it might be a little uncomfortable to share details, and that's just fine. No one's going to pressure you for that. But we do need a little more generalized info before we can offer much.

Based on what you have, can you isolate a point at which you went from being non-sexual to overly? There had to have been something to trigger the change. If something happened to cause that and you're comfortable sharing, perhaps we can help you with that. Can you hazard a guess, at least?

I'll be checking back. PC is full of great people who wish only to help. I hope we can give you the guidance you seek.