So me and my T get along really well. I have never broke down in front of him or been angry with him etc. Having a male T for me was going to be a challenge, and we talked about it, as I never have "considered" men. I never saw them as having emotions or compassion etc.
I am also one who needs to know the process,I want to make sure I am doing therapy correctly. So we talked about me not crying yet, as it seems to be an important part of the healing process. He tells me , " I could make you cry, if I wanted too"... Well now I'm a little mad, first emotion toward him..mad..

I go home I think about it , I email him. Telling him I thought that was arrogant and it didn't sit well with me. He responded

" I apologize for saying what I did. All I meant was that because you have let me in you are at a vulnerable place. Therefore, if I was to take advantage of you I could hurt you. But I don't want to!!!! I want to help. Make sense?"

Yeah, makes sense but now it is confirmed, I'm vulnerable and he can hurt me ... This makes me wanna build higher walls, I think I was better just letting it happen and not pointing it out.

Thoughts?