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Originally Posted by farmergirl
Use this as your opportunity to be in a HEALTHY vulnerable relationship. Most of us here have been in very unhealthy vulnerable positions/relationships in our lives and as a result learned to throw up walls to survive. But this is a relationship where your vulnerability will lead to healing. Fight the old survival instinct; you don't need it this time.
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I think if he wasn't a man, I wouldn't be so mad. The thought that I would be vulnerable with a man, considering my history is the issue. I don't think he meant anything bad by it, it's the way I'm taking it.
Button30-I conscientiously made a decision to see a male, as my experience with a female was more then I could handle... Plus I think in the end this will be like killing 2 birds with one stone.
I haven't responded to him, nor do I intend to... I see him again Tuesday.