In answer to the original poster's question:
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Would you as a parent prefer that they went on a website specifically aimed for their age- range?

What do you think?

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Well, I think some children and teens are very mature and can benefit from being here---- however-- with that being said--- I agree with docjohn in that they struggle with very different issues. They would benefit (IMO) the most from a support area that knows how to listen to them and respond to them in a helpful way. Many of us--myself included-- don't have the training or ability to say the best thing to a struggling teen. Not meaning they can't go to other forums... just that they could have a special one for them, with perhaps a seperate chat room that they can use--moderated by adults that can understand and give helpful support.

I want to see them get help just as much as anyone else-- it's just--- I don't think I'm qualified to be of much help to them. I get triggered or feel upset and then I find myself struggling and fear I'll say something that will only make things worse for them.

I don't think adding a new forum for teens and/or a chat for them as something negative-- it's showing-IMO-- that we care and want the best and will set a place for them so that they can truly have helpful support from people that are able to be there for them.

I'm sorry-- I'm just not one that knows how to support most young people-(I went through my young years totally afraid of everyone/everything and never reached out, never got in trouble, hadn't any friends--- I just can't relate to most of what teens are going through )

Young brains, they are finding, are different than adult brains---- hope this link works: The Teen Brain

So, I do think there is a place here for young minds..... just would be nice if they had a specific place that they could be confident in reaching out and getting helpful support.

It's a tough subject...... I do worry that some young ones reading here-- since they can be impressionable, will mimic things they read... just so they--themselves-- will be heard-- I hope that's rarely the case.

Anyway.... phew-- can't believe I said all this!!! -- young ones are very valued in my eyes(I have two of my own) and it's hard for me to be silent whenever it comes to doing what's best for our youth.

Wishing everyone a good day/night.
mandy