I think I understand where he is coming from, but he shouldnt have said it like that. It sounds like he was trying to salvage it in the email, but just is doing a bad job. I would talk more about it with him... Hopefully you can talk it out and move on in your therapy.

No I won't quit, I'll bring this up first ... I'm not afraid, I'm angry and angry Lola is relentless... Can O worms the man didn't see coming.