I know I feel insecure a large part of the time. I've gotten over it with my husband because we've been together like forever, but I can't have any close friends because of it. The last person to abandon me that I'm still working hard to get over...he said one night that he'd spend it with me,!but something else came up, a possible dating opportunity, and he went out with her instead. I told him I understood and didn't give him any grief about changing his plans, but then I got completely smashed and started texting him to help me. I didn't mean to, but I was attempting to manipulate him on to returning. Yep...the situation may not be exactly the same.....but I "get it". Wish I didn't.....