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Old Apr 12, 2004, 07:30 PM
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Documenting your warning is necessary. However it will NOT keep you safe. Telling the police, paying/filing for a restraining order will NOT keep you safe, and may antagonize him to be more aggressive and cunning.

Didn't say that to scare you more. "These people" have to live somewhere, and rarely do they change to fit into society.

Someone else nearby needs to know you're afraid. Tell others, take a digital photo of the guy, or his car and tag #... give police your cell #, make sure you have a schedule and become habitual about calling there if you are late... and carry your cell phone ON> they can track us, our last position and better chances of finding us if someone like this decides to cut out link with society.

IMHO calling the local Women in Distress or even a national hotline is also necessary, as another suggested. They know what you should do, and will give you the support that will help you be safe. Remember, our "gut" instincts are rarely wrong.

Please post often and let us know how you are doing!

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