thank you, everyone for your kind words and support, i am 34 and my parents do know what is going on and they have seen how he talks to me and they are not happy about it. and today i spoke to them and told them i am ready to leave. so they are going to lead me money for an apt, and once i move i will need to find a job and finish my schooling , i am a biology major and in my last 2 classes. i just need to break the news to him. again thank you. and i will update on situation.