
Sep 05, 2012, 07:57 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You know what? ""Resentment is the poison I take to kill you." That's what you're doing. You're killing yourself with all this anger and bitterness.
The people that you're angry & feel bitterness towards probably don't even know it, and if they do, they don't care. So you're living with it ALONE. And they have places in your head, RENT FREE. Why allow that when there's nothing you can do about it? Why live like that when you dont' have to? Why kill yourself over this garbage when it's easier to just PERHAPS give it to God. Ask Him to take it.
After I got divorced, my ex stalked me, said horrible things to me, etc. Did I hate him or get angry with him? No. I actually felt pity for him, and just let it go. It just wasn't worth it to me. I couldn't upset myself like that because I just plain didn't need that kind of drama.
I hope this makes sense to you. Sometimes I don't word things properly. But I wish you the very best and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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