Oh thank you everyone for the much needed input..I was so confused at utilizing a Ph.d who is a doing Coaching for trauma work..but was not sure how this is accomplished..I am testing the waters so to speak (2 visits), with this concept but having a hard time at how intense and how quickly the actual work begins, before a connection is formed. ...unlike psychotherapy ...again that Trust issue..but I will keep the pole handy Justben..just in case.. ..Myself, Sky, and Rap..thank you again for all the explanations and experiences..again I think part of my intial knee jerk reaction is..its moving to fast to quick with someone who is very passionate about his work..but who still is a stranger .. so I will just have to ask to slow it down somewhat...I dont think thats to unreasonable a request...