we are usually looking at each other, I think, but sometimes the doll he is holding starts making faces and distracting me, like she rolls her eyes or throws up her arms or cuddles into him, and I will interrupt him, saying, "Look, even Munchie is - or isn't - agreeing with you, she is doing (whatever) ..." or if he starts pontificating, I will entertain myself looking at his extreme arm muscles. Hey, he's the one wearing the tight t-shirt.