Hi everyone

I was tempted to post this because during the last 3 years I keep having this recurring dream that appeared about 10-15 times and I feel the need to find out what it means. But first I must give the background story that would help with interpreting the dream.

Where I used to work 4 years ago I fell in love with a co-worker the moment I saw her. During the first months our relationship was confined strictly to professional matters but slowly we opened up to each other. Then at some point we did build a rapport but it was nothing definitive enough. But the problem was that no matter how much I wanted her, the "reasonable" part of myself was telling me that I should not get involved because she seemed to be a really dangerous woman that would lead me to much trouble in my life if I got involved with her. She had a volatile, aggressive, often sarcastic character that I thought was too much for me - though at the same time I celebrated these traits as part of her allure. I also felt that I wasn't good enough to be with such an attractive woman. So, in the midst of a terrible conflict within myself, I became increasingly cold and distant and one day I quit my job only because I wanted to be away from her and forget her. Which of course I haven't since I still love her and think about her and I regret my decision ever since. It has caused me depression and problems with moving forward with my life.

So here's the dream:

Common theme in most dreams I remember where this woman features is that I go back where I used to work with her, sometimes we share the same office (like it was in real life) , sometimes we are in different parts of the building, but nothing extraordinary seems to happen, we do not speak or if we speak it's only about trivial work-related matters. There is no resolution or any kind of romantic and intimate approach in the dream.

What bothers me the most all this time is that there was no closure between us and that I never found out how she really felt about me. Could the dream be hinting at that or something related to it? I really want to find out because I know that a dream that persists - especially one showing up so many times - is really important and will keep coming back if we do not pay heed and act according to what is trying to tell us.