I am a huge fan of oral sex. When I was younger though I had the thought that oral sex was gross. I always try to be clean and well shaved down there. I don't want to go down on a guy who is dirty down there so I don't want to be dirty down there either. If I feel my partner may not be so clean I either recommond a shower together or I say why don't I get you a bath running it helps to ease the converstation in that direction and than other times I am blunt and just come out and say it doesn't smell right I won't go down on you.