good job thinking everything through setso. past couple years i learned that feelings are different than thoughts, i'm still figuring it out. but for example last night talking to my son about him relapsing with meth. told him i felt betrayed, also told him i'm not saying that's a fact, just how i feel, i know you weren't trying to betray me, and were just out with your friends doing your thing, but that's how i feel. he nodded and understood (he's possibly had more therapy than me).

so i'm figuring out how to have my feelings and how to think them through, which helps me process the feeling, time to choose how to react, etc.

and hey good song the incubus one, i liked it