(((( Auds ))))

This is your T's problem, hon, not yours. If she's frustrated to the point of tears she needs to seek advice and work that out behind the scenes.

If a frustrated doctor cried to his cancer patient because the patient still had cancer...

Would that be the patient's fault?

If the patient followed the Dr's orders on how to get well and still wasn't 100%...is that the patient's fault?

If the patient said screw you, and didn't do anything to get better, is that the doctors fault?

Hell no. It's not anyones fault. It is what it is.

Sorting it out and parting friends shows that you can, and will continue to work through your differences.

The fact that your heavy heart jumps up is good.

It reminds you that you are human.

Humans feel joy and sorrow.
Humans hurt, body and mind.
But most importantly, humans love.
And sometimes that heavy heart reminds us.

Your friends are here to help.