Gardengirl..again I am humbled!!..that is why I love talking about such things..I learn something new every day!! and for this I am grateful..my sorrow for Yates and her family is great..my anger as well..but I feel as if my understanding and insight into this situation has been greatly modified and opened..I guess I just am left feeling confused about everything..I do have much compassion for people and what happens to them..I come across as sounding like I don't when I talk about Yates..I am glad that awareness is being spread..don't get me wrong..but I feel that in some ways..it might be taken advantage of..and the people that REALLY could benefit and really NEED to benefit..won't..and others that don't need it..others maybe working the system in their favor?? I dunno..maybe this is just me thinking TOO much..