Here's the update:

I haven't done it yet. Because I'm not sure of how he's gonna react and all I've set up a date for next Friday to show up at the counseling center where Andy will be. We have the same counselor and I talked to her about it and she thinks it's a good idea.

So next Friday I'll go in...our counselor will be there, and also a counselor from Crisis Intervention, who btw is a lesbian herself! I just want to take precautions in case he flips out or doesn't do too well.

So that's the complete plan! Now, if I can hold out that long and not tell him before then! I mean I just want there to be a safe environment for him...and me.

Thank you everyone for all your support over the months with this. I know it's been slow progress but it's coming very soon!