tomi, in view of all this all transpired, i PMed you first explaining the issue to you. you know that i care for you. it escalated beyond one complaint about our trying to let people know about the internet problem that is in our faces. i'm sorry that you're still feeling angry/hurt with me. i still trust you. it could have stopped long before it did. i own what i said to you. please don't put the entire episode off on me. love, pat