sky, i agree with you.......making a list and deciding what you WANT is going to be very helpful. then taking that list and working on it, at your pace, and not expecting an overnight deliverance will get you there.......it sure helped me.

i've been better since i moved, cause i wanted to be better and i wanted to soak up a different mind set that i knew was here and the belief that you and others showed in me by your help.......it all adds up to better days.