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Umm but it's his child too, and no one could predict her getting sick, this is a responsibility for both parents

Biologically it is not his child, I had her before we married.

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Have you tried marriage counselling ?

I haven't tried marriage counselling. Suggested it a few years ago, nothing ever came of it.

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Hanging you past mistakes over you isn't right

. I am constantly reminded by him of my past mistakes and everything that is wrong with me. It seems like the only time he talks to me is to point out a mistake. It doesn't do much for my self esteem.

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because right now seems like you are in this on your own

Your right, I am in this on my own and that is exactly how he is trying to make me feel. He wants me to understand how he feels after having all the financial responsibility on his shoulders.

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experience peace and harmony within my home

Haven't had peace and harmony in the home for at least the past five years. Can't wait to experience this.....

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Kinda sounds like right now you are a single parent to five kids

. It's only three kids