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Old Sep 07, 2012, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by agma View Post
Feeling very guilty for spending 3 hours last night with a new friend and not spending any time with my husband. This is a person that I am in group therapy with, so she understands my struggles with mental illness. We shared more of our stories with each other, and it felt really good. I got the feeling that my husband was annoyed by my leaving last night to spend some time with this person. I keep reminding myself that my H was very tired last night and that I might have just percieved him as being annoyed when in reality he wasn't. My anxiety is extremely high because of this.
Hi agma.....Sorry you're feeling so anxious. Is your husband sympathetic about the struggles you face in your life? Can you talk about things with him? Because even if he is kind about things, it seems like perhaps he would understand that talking to someone who understands on a different level is a really positive, good thing for you. Of course nothing is so simple, and I don't know anything about your life, but this is just something I believe. Sending lots of warm thoughts and hugs ~whimsy

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