Hi Tita,
Don't be silly. You're not bothering anybody. (((Tita)))
It's what we're here for.
People are so petty sometimes. It's hard to get around it because no matter where you go-it seems to be there, too.
I hope you find a way to rise above it and not get sucked into it one way or the other.
Hang in there. You can keep talking to us.