Hi Jax,

No, you're not making a mountain out of a molehill. That is a perfectly reasonable response (in my opinion) to someone saying something like that.

I was told something along the same lines, I was going to be aborted because of my physical disability, that my extended family was pressuring because of a previous problem with another relative being born with one.

Parents shouldn't say that sort of thing, even if its the truth. The truth can and does hurt. And just being thrown at you too, thats too horrible.

I hope that your mother isn't loving you out of obligation, and I do doubt it. She does love you, maybe not in the way you want but I bet she does.

*hugs* and take care.