I'm proud of you for being able to have a healthy sex life after going through that.

I think he might have a combination of situations. I think it's emotional because it happened with all of his serious relationships. Also something that aggravates him is the fact that he has an herniated disk, he just found out today. That's why he has been in a lot of pain for the longest time.

He tried to kill his ex wife while he was asleep, He couldn't remember it. With me at the beginning he used to have sex in the middle of the night and couldn't remember it. I'm thinking that once he becomes sort of emotionally attached in a relationship he no longer has sexual interest. But that's just my hypothesis.