I would agree with others that it's smart to be cautious. If there are people in your life who may use it against you then it is wise to protect yourself. And it sounds like that is the case.

There is something to be said for being open and honest about your illness, it can be very freeing. But you also need to be ready to take that step and you also need to be in a place where you are certain you could not be hurt by the people in your life if they were to find out. I clearly hear you saying that it would not be safe for you if others were to know.

Thanks for sharing this, I find it a very interesting topic... And something I have been grappling with some over the last year. I hope the responses are helpful to you!