Great post and advice "Anika". She's right "Coffee", you will learn to pick up on it eventually. My advice, as is to everyone is, EDUCATE your family. They can pick up on it sooner than you can. Then write yourself a note that says "listen to your family". Can I see mine coming? sometimes. Do I always stop them? no. But I do remember one time I did and from that point on I have tried my best to stop them. Not always easy. Keep moving forward though.