I know this thread is a couple of days old, but I just discovered it

My t always says to me "You're in charge", which sometimes I like and sometimes I hate!

Another thing she always says, after she asks me a question ...."and you're not allowed to say I don't know!!" Because I always say that even though I have an answer!! I used to say I don't know and then she would say "if you did know, what would it be?" but now she just skips straight to telling me not to say "I don't know". I recon she says that at least once every session!