I felt really sad this morning when I unexpectedly ran into the kindest, most loving e-mail that my now ex-bff wrote to me back in March.....before we headed off together to a big tennis tournament. I still find it hard to comprehend how she turned, and the icy coldness that has now existed since late May. No matter how much I work on it in therapy, not matter how many books I read about this kind of thing, etc.....the cruelty that some people are capable of will never make sense to me. Big sigh......