Myself..Coaching...mmmm..jury is still out on this one...and thank you for the info you pm'd me..it made sense..I am not a person that can talk to chairs, or strike pillows..or strangle stuff toys to express emotions...but unless he takes the time to understand..mmm...me...how is he going to know that..we need to start at emotions 101, so I will slow it down and maybe we just need to have a Heart to Coach type of interaction..I am overwhelmed when something is just continuously placed in front of me to hit or lash out at...I dont do that..although I have had to tell him to back away a few times..I just thought of this...the only thing in the room I have had any desire to push away or strike out at is him...mmm...food for thought...that is why we need to slow down I think in his zeal to heal..I am getting some space problems when he gets to close..

I think he is cool, and he wants to help, and I respect him and his abilities...but SLOW is good right now...I knew that pole JustBen suggested would come in handy..maybe I should set a space boundary of at least 2 feet..just until we have worked together longer..

Wow..Thanx..this has helped..sometimes I do my best processing of issues online...amazing...now just need to apply it IRL...