I don't have a problem with people venting, but if it is the same topic or same person and one doesn't do anything about it then it is difficult to offer honest support to someone, not just you so don't feel persecuted, and perhaps degrade was the wrong choice of words, it is just that when a man gets his way with what he decides, or hurts a women, I feel a woman degrades herself by allowing this treatment to occur.
Sorry, just my opinion on this, you can trash it if you wish