Okay, I get what you are talking about, and the rest who have replied also.
Pet, I feel some defensive vibes, but please know what I replied had no intentions to upset you, and apologize for it.
For the others, yes, we are individuals and have individual treatments, some treatments work and some don't.
Bipolar may not always be black and white, or cut and dry.
At the same time, let it be known that one can have more disorders than just Bipolar, some overlap or just very similar to Bipolar behaviour(s) taking expertise to determine which is one or the other or several.
When this is the case, several meds/treatments may be necessary.
In general, key meds for Bipolar are basically mood stabilizers, while "additives" may be included or not.
No rule written in stone, I was just stressing the first target pdocs take, then according to what type of episodic behaviour one has, other meds follow.
Final point to my reply, is y'all have to do what y'all deem necessary, if y'all are fortunate to work with the pdocs,have communication(s) with them, this is great.
If the results/outcome of treatment is hazy,not working within what the person's pdoc expected (but expectations are never black or white, either) I am trying to suggest a 2nd opinion or another pdoc be sought out.
Last apology from me, if my reply was mis-read or taken with defense, the reply wasn't meant that way.
I apologized, sincerely, if that is not enough, I do not know what to say.
Take care,
DE

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