i'm not trying to say that sex is most important. i don't believe that either. my bf and i rarely have sex, I would like to more, because the love and the touch is fulfilling for me emotionally. but we don't live together, we're busy with work, and i have kids, and my bipolar, and all his fishing trips, etc. he'd probably rather go on a hike with me next to a river than have sex, that's his values, who he is.

so your values seem to be loving and doing fun things together are more important than sex. nothing wrong with that, it's beautiful and meaningful. stick to your guns for what you believe in.