good point!

and yet...'

it's as you say...'instant'...most often to forgive others.

and I really don't want to unshine you WNT...because I respect you.

the thing is...forgiveness is in my heart but i have behaved opposite to this my whole life....saying it acting it but not proving it....

I was exposed to blame really too soon for me and ever since all I seem to be expert at is finding fault in the world around me.

I say "no worries man"....but it's just a bad habit.

I forgive no-one for anything they might or might not do...

meanwhile...it's very lonely

I'm 'dubbled' up as usual blame me for blaming them