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Old Sep 09, 2012, 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted by purpledaisy View Post
OK this might be totally silly to even think about.

I've reconnected with a bunch of high school friends via Facebook, and we all try to get together once a month.

Every few days, one of the girls will post on the walls of many of the other girls. Of course, these appear in the feed for all to see.

She'll post stuff like:
  • Hey, girl. Hope all is well in your world.
  • Hope things are great with you - catch up with you soon
  • Looking forward to seeing you again soon.
Am I just paranoid for wondering why I don't rank high enough in her world to get these messages, too?
so sorry, Purple Daisy, I feel your pain. As great as Facebook can be for a variety of reasons, so too, can it cause us real distress and concern, as in your case. Something similar happened to me recently, and I worried and got pretty upset for a while. Then, I finally moved on, and reread something nice someone else had said to me, and also made a phone call to pass on a good word to another person. An effective distraction, really! Honestly can't say I don't still think about it though, but actions like I mentioned do help, and then it's easier to put it out of mind. The best to you!!!!