He is just taking you for granted. He is bossing you around! I have gone through that. At first, with this man it was all roses and he adored me. He never got angry with me. Even when I made mistakes, he found them cute and adorable. I have no clue when or how things got gradually shifted to this angry-grumpy state where nothing that I did was ever good enough. I even got yelled at from him in front of invited friends a couple of times.
I don't know what to advise you. If I knew I would have done the same. The difference between us is that you are married to him while I wasn't. We broke up eventually but not because of me. He wanted out cause I guess he got bored of me or something, I don't know. I am sorry you are going through this, I know how it feels. Say, have you tried pampering yourself? Have you tried to "pimp" yourself up to remind him of the person he fell in love with? Maybe he's got lost in the daily routine....can this be a reason?