Yes, i do think most of us do compare ourselves to others, often in unfavorable ways, but many of us also count our blessings, and this can help, though we feel badly for those less fortunate. The hardest thing for me is when some people have said and sometimes still say things to me, usually out of pity or compassion, which I hate. Things like "I wonder how you can keep going sometimes, with your bipolar and mental illness. I mean you've always been so smart and talented and have plenty of achievements but just haven't been able to manage your health well enough to achieve success." They refer to things like several lost careers, like not being able to retire from the military nor from teaching, and not being able to make it through nursing school, etc. And not being as well off financially. This basically seems to tap into my own negative feelings about myself and it's so tough! I am trying to come up with a better definition of success now, though, and one unlike the one I was taught. Actually, there are many folks who don't even have BP or diagnosed emotional issues who, post-recession, are also having to come up with new meaning in their lives, even as they struggle to survive. So, I know I'm not alone. But the pity can be very hard to take. However, I've committed to enjoying life and to making my own meaning, as best I can. I came to this point nearly a year ago after more than a half century of BP type issues (the old manic depressive!), and I'm doing a lot better. There's hope, but everyone's purpose is uniquely their own, and they must do the work to create it themselves. And boy, can it be a challenge. But I consider the alternative, so the effort is highly worth it. The very best to you, you unique individual, with whom there is no comparison!!!! (Said with a smile and said in a positive and sincere tone!)