This is hard for me...so if I am saying something stupid, don't jump all over me. I get that a T should apologize if he/she messes up, misses and appointment, forgets familiar info...etc. This isn't stuff that bothers me though. The rupture I had with T was about several things, but the most unforgivable being a confidentiality breach. Not just a breach...but a saying "I promise I won't tell him, I don't even have signed authorization to speak to him" and then hearing from "him" on several occasions "I spoke with t and he told me....". Is that a rupture? Or is it a lie?

It's over with that T, I actually told him off about it, it was the final straw of a bunch of smaller forgivable offenses. No, I didn't get an apology, not even close to one.