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Originally Posted by Didgee Eeyou
How do you want her to react?
Don't use indirect gestures. They usually get misinterpreted, anyway. It is best to be open and direct with people. They really appreciate this.
Eg. If you are deliberately late for an appointment, she will assume traffic, family or work as the cause, rather than you being upset at her.
If you can't establish boundaries get a new psych.
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i want her to ask why the hell im upset even though she should know already.
actually my first therapist used to assume right away that if i get there late or miss an appoint i wasnt pleased with her. supposedly is the first thing a psych should think? even though sometimes she would exaggerate in that analysis. i just wish she would show i matter like she did in beginning.