wiki, since you ask? your T talking to your pdoc - why is that a big deal? I know that according to HIPAA rules, you should have control, etc, but according to the definitions of venial and mortal sin, it wasn't a mortal sin - the actual ACT was not horrible - but you're treating it like one.

I think you know that the true rupture was probably his email list. That he was sexual. Now you are always giving us "proof" that things are good or bad. I get it, I couldn't believe I got fooled last week and bought a fig newton without looking at the label first - HFCS!!! Listed right after figs! The shame!

But no one is perfect. So we MUST accept the good and bad in people. T's spend a lot of time with people trying to seduce them, pleading with them to love them - I wouldn't be surprised if they need some relief between sessions sometimes. So why not look at it as professional hazard, rather than personal perversion? T is nothing to you. He's a figurehead. This is more about your real feelings about a real person, like maybe your dad. A T is more like a lawyer, showing you where the "law" of feelings was rightly on your side.