For WikidPissah:
I thought that the "porn" thing was that after your T's father died, he discovered an extensive porn collection and it seemed to you that T was not upset by this, but seemed amused by it? Maybe I missed some posts, but I thought that was the story. Now this has grown into your T being some kind of perv who's all into porn???? Sorry, but this is bugging me. Could you please set the record straight with facts so I can forget about this? Apologies, it's Monday morning and I don't do Mondays well