Im in a new relationship. we have decided to not have sex because of my religious values, but he wants to do it anyways. The past 2 times we have had time alone at my house have ended up with us being sexually intimate (fondling each other, oral sex, etc). he is recently divorced from an 11 yr marriage so he has plenty of experience. I have been in 2-3 intimate relationships but maintaining abstinence. I was in 1 relationship that involved sex. none of the guys have complained in the past of how I pleasure them and usually orgasm from 5-20 minutes of stimulation. This new boyfriend is so different and im wondering if its a problem with me or if its him. It literally takes hours of stimulation for him to orgasm and by the time he does we are both exhausted. Both times he has ended up having to finish himself off while I kiss and talk dirty etc... he gets in distress because his penis gets tender from all the stimulation. By the way, he is 29 yr old...