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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
what part.... yes that is how i feel today.
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I know this is how you feel today but your outward situation has changed? You don't have to respond the way you had to as a kid?
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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
i have to consistently point it out and its tiring...I feel like if she cant see my needs she must not love me. Although I know that's not fair either, i need to learn to recognize and ask... uggg
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Yeah, the codependent way of doing things is "I'll meet your needs and you meet mine". Your partner can help but you have to be in charge of your needs.