The guy is still trying to make contact with me, either by note or calling "hello" to me through my door from out in the hall. He's trying to give me the "nice guy" image now.

I talked to my kid's psychologist again about this guy and how we should plan our future visits--my place or motel, etc. He agreed that a motel is best. He's not even sure if I should be living where I am because of this guy. I'd like to move and hope that I can find someplace that I can afford. I know it would make me--and my kid's T--feel better about the situation. He also agreed with me that having the kids over to the place where I am now would be like an invitation for my neighbor to bug us. He's also thinking that a police report might be a good idea. As of yet, I haven't done it, but am still highly considering. My neighbor was pounding on my door and yelling for me at 1245am the other night for almost 15 minutes. I think he finally got the idea that I am ignoring him for a reason--that I don't want to go out with him. He sounded very frustrated and angry when he finally gave up. He then slid a note under my door a few minutes later saying that I win and that I could have been nicer. (?!?!?) I could have been nicer?! I am sure that if I answered his pounding and yelling at the door, it would have told him that is the way to get my attention and to get me to talk to him. That's not the way to do it.