Sorry, I didn't read your post as carefully as I should have. I just noticed the fact that you had a child.

I still suggest you talk to a therapist. If you chose the homosexual lifestyle, then you need to be careful and prepared for some people's reactions, of course. I think you might be labeled "bisexual," but I am no "sexpert." If you can live a hetero lifestyle, then I truly believe that's the best.