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Old Sep 11, 2012, 01:29 AM
Anonymous32715
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Originally Posted by un_important View Post
I want her to ask why the hell I'm upset even though she should know already. Actually my first therapist used to assume right away that if I get there late or miss an appoint I wasn't pleased with her.
Every therapist is different. You have to tell this one why you are upset.

How did your former therapist know you were not pleased? You must have discussed it.

Please consider talking with your psych. She wants to help. Don’t give up on her because of the communication struggles you have described here. It can be sorted out.

If you have trouble expressing yourself with words, try writing a letter. Tell her what you expect in the relationship. It is okay to make such requests. Try to discuss the issue openly without resorting to passive-aggressive behaviour. This type of response makes the situation worse and almost always pushes people away.

I hope you can resolve this.