purebugg, if you read this I DID NOT say it wasn't okay to vent, no one said venting wasn't allowed either.
If you look at the "home" page these forums fall under the category "support forums".
I am sorry if some people including myself say things they personally may not want to hear, but this is a free forum for anyone to say what goes with the comment posted/inquiry and or reply.Just like what you are saying here to me! Sorry sweentgentle and the others, I'll be sure to not to reply, to any of your ventings, whinings or what ever you wish to call them as you so choose. I'll be sure if I do, to "candy coat" them and work my damndest to say only what you'd like to hear.
For the others, I'll remain as my down to the earth person, and continue to answer from my heart and mind, there are many people that can handle the truth.
Thanks